A couple of weeks back i was fortunate(uhm) to be invited to a hen night..which was to say the least, interesting and informative..if not a little shocking. One of the topics to come up was douching...as i said i never get why some topics are such taboo yet so crucial..you only have to provide a forum for such topics to realize that enough people are also experiencing the same things or wondering about the same thing/...or different stuff which you can learn from..while others just show you how diverse we are as human beings. I have informed the whole world how i hate working in nde4cember...its my first December working and to say ten truth i have been moaning about it non-stop...today was a Friday and December so you can guess my motivation level for work...subzero...i worked in the morning and in they afternoon decided to research some of the stuff that were being discussed at the hen party.

Below are questions and responses from some interactive website....some had me in stitches ..and for the first time i laughed till i shed tears...made my day...i also realized some people thinks its perfectly okay to shower once a week!!!!!!!!!


1.by seeekingginfo on March 22, 2009 at 3:18 PM

I'm 17, and engaged to be married in 2 years... my fiancee and I do have a sex life, and the last time we did it, he ripped something "up there", now it dangles... ick. I don't know what it is, and I can't seem to find anything on the web about it: it used to be a smallish fleshy "loop" (I used to get tampons stuck on it occasionally), but now it's just a... string-thing. Does this ring a bell to anyone? Does anyone know what it is?

Response:\by RandomRainbows on April 5, 2009 at 4:54 PM

its ur hymen...u have a septate hymen...google it.....it broke and now its still there xD o.o u need to get it cut off by a Gynaecologist or u could do it urself....but its better to go to a Gynaecologist ._.



2.by Vajayjayman on March 23, 2009 at 8:06 PM

Guys, I'm 17 going on 18. I just wanna know . . . . WHAT THE FUCK IS A CHERRY?!?!?!

RESPONSE:
+1 by jenero on April 20, 2009 at 12:33 AM

it's like a barrier. It gets broken the first time you have sex and then you're not a virgin anymore. Then there is a little bleeding. They call it a cherry because after it breaks, it bleeds.

0 by Rhyre on June 18, 2009 at 10:05 AM

Yeah, the 'barrier' is scientifically known as a 'hymen'. Losing your virginity is biologically signified by your hymen being broken. :]


3.by Herpesnator on June 8, 2009 at 6:43 PM

My vagina hurts , it leaks weird things



4.by NaGfH on June 21, 2009 at 2:40 AM

Um, I heard something unusual today and wanted to know if this is accurate or not: that its not uncommon for a woman to NOT HAVE a clitoris. It sounded ridiculous but I wanted to be sure.

THIS ONE KILLED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111LIEK FOR THE FIRST TIME I LAUGHED TILL I CRIED...AND AM IN THE OFFICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5. +1 by zoe001821 on July 4, 2009 at 1:02 AM

OK I NEED SERIOUS HELP HERE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO IHATE THE WAY MY VAGINA LOOKS IT LOOKS WERID AND MINE HAS BIG LIPS AND I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO GET RID OF THEMM ANYWAY LIKE EXERCISE OR ANYTHING PLZ PPLZ HELP

Response::::::Vaginal lips vary a lot from one woman to the next in both size and color. The size and color may change a bit during puberty. Since you're 14, you're probably going through those changes now and just aren't used to your new body yet. Exercise won't change your size or color. So you're just going to have to get used to your body and learn to love it!

6.by pixxie123l on July 6, 2009 at 5:28 PM

Hello, I was just going to ask if its normal if infront, I dont want to be clueless here but im not sure where my vagina is. Theres like this outy thing that hangs and when i walk it moves and It REALLY annoys me and I dont again want to be MORE clueless but can it affect the future like the pregnancy or anything like that?

Please respond It would help alot :) Thank you

RESPONSE::::::::The female body can be kind of confusing with all the hair and folds of skin. But we have three holes down there. The first one is where pee comes out. The second is the vagina. The third is where poop comes out.


As for the thing that hangs, it's tough to say what it is without looking at you. You could have a large clitoris or large labia. The size of the clitoris and labia can vary a lot from one woman to the next, so it's ok for them to be on the larger side.


But seeing a doctor wouldn't be a bad idea. Since the doctor could actually look at your body, he or she would be able to tell you for sure what it is and answer any questions that you may have.

0 by pixxie123l on July 7, 2009 at 3:13 PM

Okay, thank you very much for your reply, and I looked up internet, because i wasent certain of it. but it says its a labia and again thanks :)

0 by pixxie123l on July 7, 2009 at 5:07 PM

1 more thing, Is it going to affect anything if I have a labia?

0 by Sanssouci on July 7, 2009 at 7:47 PM

No, "labia" just means the vaginal lips. All women have them.

0 by pixxie123l on July 7, 2009 at 8:32 PM

Okay, thank you





7.by xkeepitgreene on July 11, 2009 at 9:25 PM

I am 17 & just lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few months ago. It bled, a lot, so i know he broke my hymen. Then we had sex a second time-- no bleeding. The third (and last) time there was blood everywhere, dripping nonstop. How many times after loosing your virginity should you bleed during sex?
Also, my boyfriend fingers me a few times a week. The past few times he's fingered me, I've bled. I know it's not my period. He said he felt "strings" up in my vagina, but that he broke them. Today, my boyfriend fingered me again for the first time in seven days (we waited because we thought the bleeding wouldn't happen if we gave my vagina time to heal) but it started to bleed again. He also said he felt more "strings". What is he feeling? And why does my vagina keep bleeding? I know it's not because i'm not wet enough, and he is the only person i've done anything sexual with, likewise for him, so no STDs, etc. Answers would be much appreciated! Merci :]


Strings!!!!!!!!!!!!!1?????????????????????

RESPONSE:::::::by Sanssouci on July 12, 2009 at 10:49 AM

There\'s no certain number of times you have to have sex in order to stop bleeding. Every woman is different. Some women never bleed during sex. Others might bleed the second time but not the first. Some might not bleed the first 100 times, but then might bleed when they go for 101!

The vaginal tissue is very delicate. It can tear if it is too dry, if our partner is too rough with us, if our partner has sharp fingernails, etc. And even a tiny cut down there can lead to a lot of blood. You can try a water-based lubricant and see if it helps because a lot of women think they\'re wet enough until they try a store bought lubricant. Then they realize they could have been wetter!

But I have no idea what strings he\'s feeling. I\'ve never experienced that in my own vagina, and my partners have never mentioned it either. So given that along with the fact that the strings break and cause you to bleed a lot, I\'d recommend seeing an ob-gyn about it.

8.by unknown7 on August 24, 2009 at 6:02 PM

this is akward for me to say all this but... my boyfriend and I were having sex and he used four fingers to finger me and it hurt! After that I went to the bathroom and I was bleeding! Now it hurts to sit, bend, and sometimes walk. Should I go to a doctor or what? this happend today and I have had sex before

by Sanssouci on September 4, 2009 at 9:58 PM

It's possible that he tore you with his fingernail. That happens a lot because the vaginal tissues are so delicate. It should heal on its own, but scrapes do leave you vulnerable to infection, so see an ob-gyn if you notice any problems.

Lesson learnt...FINGERNAILS ON DDUES ARE YOUR ENEMIES

9.by Rika_B on October 25, 2009 at 12:03 PM

Hey Im a virgin. I was wondering if it is weird for my vagina to be itchy but it only goes on for 3 days (I think its just cause I didn't shower for a week but I still want to make sure), I do shave but I have been doing it for awhile and I sometimes get itchy when my hair grows back too.

READ THE PART WHERE SHE DID NOT SHOWER FOR A WEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RESPONSE>>>>>by Sanssouci on October 26, 2009 at 3:06 PM

Shaving and skipping showers certainly can make you itchy. It's best to wash your vulva every day with water and a mild soap. A lot of women shave, but it's actually not recommended. In addition to causing itching and irritation, it can increase your chance of getting an infection down there. So your best bet would be to wash properly and stop shaving. If you still have itching even after that, you should go to the ob-gyn just to make sure you don't have an infection.